You are not a worrier. You take pride instead in understanding the differences between the common cold and genuine illness. You do not panic at the first flush of a fever. You do not scramble toward the hospital when a cough suddenly appears. Your choices are deliberate and your responses are calm…. except when it comes to your children. When they offer a less than happy stare, you’re instantly prepared to consult every doctor in town.

This is, naturally, not sensible. You know that you can’t race to the emergency room for every scrapped knee and snuffle. There have to be boundaries. There have to be rules. And the knowledge that children attract illness as easily as mischief must be understood. Your son or daughter will one day be sick. That is not a question. The answer, however, may depend on the symptoms they offer.

There are warning signs all parents should learn to recognize. These represent potential problems that warrant seeing a doctor:

1. Fever. All children are susceptible to flushed cheeks and hot temples. You must be wary, however, if the temperature continues to climb. If a thermometer reads 102 (or above), seek out assistance immediately. Do not wait.

2. Sore throats. The strains of laughter or tantrums can agitate any throat. Should those agitations become persistent, however, then you should consult a physician. This can suggest possible infections or other illnesses.

3. Breathing abnormalities. All children become winded after hours of playing. Not all children, however, remain winded. Watch your son or daughter carefully to monitor how long it takes them to recover and if they suffer from gasping, coughing or other breathing difficulties.

4. Sleep loss. Nightmares are common and can force any child to have the occasional bad night. If your child is suffering from frequent sleep disruption, however, than the cause may be a greater problem–whether psychical or emotional. Help is needed.

Illness is a certainty for children. The severity of that illness, however, depends on how early it is caught. Look for these symptoms and understand their importance.